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Dating- What Kind Of A Person Will Be Right
For You-1
 All of us who are active on the dating scene have many
questions in our mind. What kind of person should I date? How
do I behave during a date? What is the result of my date? Did
my date like me? Is he/she honest in what they say or I should
be careful? The mind gets bombarded with questions. The
situation becomes so trouble some for some of us that we get
tired and say- no more dating for me.
We date a person because we are looking for a partner. Many of
us may not marry the partner but we still look for long-term
relationship. For that we must begin with asking about the
kind of person who will be right for us. Otherwise the whole
purpose is lost. Let us look at the qualities we must look for
in our prospective partner.
Similarities in thinking, attraction towards each other,
common values and political views and same approach towards
various life situations are some of the areas we must
investigate before we zero upon a person.
Attraction towards each other- if you are not attracted to the
other person, nothing will work. Attraction can be of much
types- physical attraction, attraction towards intellectual
ability, attraction to the personality and so on. Analyze your
attraction and decide if that will last for at least five
years. If you think that you will no more be attracted to the
person after some months, do not go ahead. Many times we are
very much attracted towards a person. But after sometime the
attraction wanes. This happens with physical attraction most
often. You like somebody's features and body build. After some
moths, you find nothing new or attractive in that body. Why
that happens is a subject for psychiatrists and psychologists
to decide.
In this part, we have looked at attraction. In the second part
we will look more at attraction and other aspects of a
long-term relationship.
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